Comments on: Sister2Sister: Why Black Men Date White Women?

By: Ct

Ct — Thu, 11 Mar 2010 02:37:24 +0000

In this day & age it’s real sad that people are still talking about race when it comes to dating. I feel that a person should be able to date who they please. I’m a Black man that’s secure with myself that’s dated outside my race( Black,White, Latin, Asian) & it has nothing to do with race. I’ve grown up around a lot of different cultures & have friends of many backgrounds. I think it’s a bunch of BS about a black man being too insecure to date our own race.(or at least speaking for myself). Every race have women that’s pretty,crazy, loose or whatever. Love has no color or bounderies. If people could put the same energy in to being
positive as they do on hatin on others we would all be a lot better off. I don’t worry or care what others think especially if they don’t know me…..When will people wake up!!

By: Taylor

Taylor — Wed, 17 Feb 2010 03:50:01 +0000

I don’t understand why people make such a big deal about interracial dating. What is this, 1967? I am a white girl (mixed with native american but probably about 75% white) who has dated out of my race as well as in my race. I am currently dating an African American man who I adore and not because he’s African American but because he adores me and makes me feel beautiful and is intelligent and kind. Yet, the other day as we were visiting his parents, a woman glared at me and muttered something about white women stealing the ‘good black men’. I was upset by the comment and shared this with my boyfriend who said that was normal. I think this is strange because my father is white and my stepmother is an African American women and I’ve never heard a white woman say ‘god those black women always steal the good white men’. I understand that the situations are different, but I do believe we should all just respect each other as people.
Also, my ancestors never owned slaves. We’re a family of poor Jewish and Irish immigrants mixed with decimated Cherokee and I find it insulting to say that we are a weak race. I have worked my entire life and never taken crap from anybody! My boyfriend says that I am strong and that he has deep respect for me, and to have somebody judge me by the color of my skin without ever speaking to me or knowing anything about me is rude and presumptuous. I have also been mistaken as middle eastern and hispanic (because I take after my Native American and mediterranean ancestors) and have been judged as those races, and think that prejudging anybody based on skin color is wrong. So please, judge people on character, not on race.

By: Do You

Do You — Tue, 16 Feb 2010 00:32:38 +0000

I can’t understand why if being with whom ever you choose to be with as far as a relationship matters to anyone really. If ppl were truly able to date without these idiotic limitations when it comes to race…be with who you want to be with. The weak arguement about don’t exclusively choose one race of women/men over another kills me because if you see a person dating outside of my race it’s automatically assumed that i have chose that race exclusively when you may have found the one for you when you have tried others. But i think there are great black white brown yellow women in this world. I don’t choose exclusively because you’re all the same but individual at the same time. I am single now and have been loved sexed hurt confused by multi racial/cultural women…conclusion. Find who makes you happy your preference is your business….all haters stand below. I won’t say that one group is more right than the other group or race or whatever this gang mentality country prepetuates. May you all learn to love each other despite your differences and let each other live. I think that is the true test of humanity…

By: MuffuggaX

MuffuggaX — Mon, 15 Feb 2010 07:13:03 +0000

Dear Sister2Sister:

The reason Black men date White Women is the reason I date Asian women—FOR THE STATUS IT CONFERS!!!

Colin Powell, Michael Jackson, Tiger Woods, OJ Simpson (ya’ll remember him–the black community rendered its garments over how innocent he was…then he published his autobiography “If I Did It”…), Fill in the Blank (get the sexual pun?!!! Ha, Ha, Ha) dated White Women because they are fine, rare and super hard to obtain. Hey, if I made more than $10.00 an hour, I’d be sniffin’ after some white poontang too!!! I recall the old jewish proverb: Marry a White Woman, Screw an Asian Woman, Car date the rest!!!

Seriously. I love dating Asian Women not because I find them particularally ATTRACTIVE or more Beautiful but for the STATUS they confer. You take a BEAUTIFUL Asian woman into a resturant and all the guys in the room will Hi Five You/Winking at you as all the White women will be muttering unkind things about your date. It’s called the Thailand Syndrome. An Asian Woman will do to you what NO Self-Respecting White Woman will do to you—at least not without a new fur coat, a new sports car and a wedding ring thrown in. THAT, Ms. Sister2Sister is STATUS; That Ms. Sister2Sister is POWER!!! That is why I have Yella Fever and ain’t takin’ my Quinine Pills!!!

I once did a business lunch in a RITZI Resturant with an Asian Banker I won’t name. Suffice it to say, she was georgeous, learned and made seven figures. Some white woman came up to us and said “Mister, this is a RESPECTABLE PLACE—you can’t bring a woman like her in here!!!” I expected the Banker to ‘tear ‘Whitey’ a second asshole’ . Instead, she grabbed my arm and began shouting “ME NO GO. ME NO GO. GI#1.” I was SHOCKED and didn’t know what to say. I then reached for my wallet, opened it and started pointing at my driver’s license as I sobbed “PLEASE LADY, Don’t let my wife!!! She catches me screwing around again, she’ll leave me for sure!!! Don’t do it for me, do it for Paco and Taco and Guadalupi and Josephina and little Xocilimio. Then I fell to my knees and started sobbing hysterically while the banker kept shouting “Me No Go. GI #1″. JESUS, The Look on that White Woman’s face—WAS PRICELESS!!! I thought she’d have a stroke. Who needs ‘Dinner Theatre’ when you just need the right ‘dinner companion’

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Sat, 13 Feb 2010 00:11:38 +0000

love has no color…love is beautiful..

By: MR HOOKS

MR HOOKS — Fri, 12 Feb 2010 12:18:44 +0000

To keep it short and simple. No matter what race you are you should be interested in a person for who they are and whats inside the skin. ( NOT OUTSIDE) Im a black man and if I choose to date a different race that is my preferance. If we as people live in the past we will never work toward a great future. So I encourage all races to be diversified. Love has no color!!

By: jim

jim — Sun, 07 Feb 2010 20:16:37 +0000

I think it is sad that so many people of both races don’t seem to care at all about their heritage. It is a slap in the fact of your own people when you date outside your race, regardless of which race you are. Due to an unfair advantage that started in the late 80’s and has grown into a conspiracy, black people are the “choosen” people of the world right now. White men can’t even get a job w/o filling out an affirmative action sheet. White males are purposely shunned by many companies. Black people are given all the government grants and scholarships so they can get an education. Liberals hate the white male because we are in the way of their leftish agenda. Therefore they have set out to destroy our culture. They finance interacial porn in mass, which has helped to make it “acceptable” for white women to be w/ black men. By always promoting blacks over white males, the black man is doing pretty good financially nowadays, which was all part of the conspiracy. Black men have the secret thing that all white women crave = money and power. In 1990, you might see 1 black person in every 7 or 8 commercials. (This is fair, they are a minority). Mexicans today are rarely in commercials because liberals cant use them since they care to much about their own people to intermix (and yes, the language barrier helps with this). Today, blacks are in every single commercial. Marxist political correctness is the left’s way of doing this under the table. They do the same thing at the christmas season by changing the p.c. word to use to “holiday”. They are out to destroy the white man’s culture and they use the black man as a pawn. True, up until about 1984, blacks were definetly getting the short end of the stick (deserved in part to their actions). So in a sense, I don’t blame them for cashing in on an opportunity to get ahead that has been unfairly given to them on a silver platter by liberal elites. However, it has gone too far and is the reason america went broke and is going down the tubes morally.

The people who participate in intermixing should be ashamed of themselves ! What a disgrace to their own people !

By: Roberta

Roberta — Fri, 29 Jan 2010 23:47:51 +0000

RIDICULOUS. I am a white woman married to a black man. We have two daughters together. I am not and have never ever been easy or docile. Why in the world would anyone date a single race only. Your perfect mate could be black white asian or latin. So why limit based on a thin layer of colored tissue. REALLY??? Lots of women are easy of all cultures and races. PUHLEASE. Face it black ladies and date all kinds of men. You could find your king has japanese roots. or Decended from the ancient Myans. Grow up people. Get over a simple coloring of the outside dermis.

By: renee

renee — Tue, 26 Jan 2010 21:56:14 +0000

• There are several reasons why it’s perceived to be hard to date black women, but that perception is based primarily on stereotypes and misunderstanding. Black women are as uniquely individual as any other demographic category of people and should be treated as such. One of the biggest mistakes that men make when dating black women is in treating them as an object, instead of as a woman. Any man desiring to have a strong relationship with any woman had better understand that he must first get to know that woman as an individual. Each individual is different, and that includes women of the African American community black women have long been unfairly stereotyped. Those stereotypes have come and gone with generational changes in society, from the “mammy” type image presented in the first moving pictures, to the booty-shaking “hood girls” of today’s music videos. And, with each new generation comes a new perceived image of the black woman, regardless of how diverse those women live. The history of black women in America has seen them as slaves, caretakers, washwomen, maids, teachers, nurses, businesswomen, ministers Black women were once thought of as the hard working nucleus of the black family. They were viewed as church going matriarchs, who suffered through worthless men, and in more cases than not, raising children on their own. They were thought to have had limited education, subjecting them to mostly low skill service oriented jobs working either in factories or for white families, where white women are perceive and beauty queens, very small and sleek, long hair and sexy.

By: sonia

sonia — Tue, 26 Jan 2010 19:57:39 +0000

I first think that people, any person should date who ever they want… I think we should not use excuse of black women are queens. We are queens in our own ways, we have had to deal with a lot and still we rise, you cant catorize a few relationships on saying this. However if you really want to go there… I say that black men are very irresponsible. They don’t take care of there children they plant there seeds everywhere and have no responsibility. Another instead they want to talk about the white man. We can all put marks on each other….if your mother not a queen. Not saying her attitude but she should conduct herself like one and you should treat her like one, not the case with black men they treat black women like a dog and then when they get white women they think of them as the queen… believe me there is drama from every race. I think its so sad when you have black men when they get money they date out side there race,, uuhum let see, Tiger Woods Ice-T, Seal, Cuba Gooding Jr., Montel, , barry bonds, reggie bush, the list goes on and on the point is marry for love not for skin color, good hair, mixed baby’s that is so superficial… if you were married to a black women and had a little girl she grows up and says she didn’t not want to date black men.. You would ask her why… think about it… does she see how you treat your wife and how you talk to her. I think about hally Barry one of the most black beautiful women dated black men/married look how they treated her, so guess what she did got her a white man and so much is perceive about what we see on TV. most of the time you see white women on TV, look at the cheerleaders, Victoria secret,, most of the starts on TV on white, no wonder why black men want a white women they have been programmed by what they see on TV.. No black women… I personally am a black woman but look mixed so I don’t care either way, and have 3 kids by 3 no good black men who I had to fore to pay child support, didn’t have to force them to have sex though and with my son he has not seen his father for 13 years, oh but he also has another black son, but he did marry a white women and has 2 kids by her, but never really see his other 2 black sons.. the generational curse continues.. so know I don’t want another black man… but it would be nice if all the black men got all the white women then maybe the white men will come to the other side and see how good it is….

By: Keri

Keri — Sun, 24 Jan 2010 03:00:30 +0000

This comment is for BLACK ROYALTY – oh stop it! As usual, a black person has turned his comments into the same, tired argument over slavery……for your information, most people that are alive today were not alive in the slavery era!!!! Move on off it!

By: Love

Love — Fri, 22 Jan 2010 11:49:50 +0000

I’d like to chime in and say from personal expirence black women have such bad attitudes. I am a black man married to a white woman, I’ve dated black women in the past. The main issue i had is an “I’m a queen” attitude. No matter how well they were treated it just was not enough, so I decided to date women of other races and fell in love with a white woman. Its not a matter of being able to walk all over anyone (if you treat your partner like that they should leave you) it is just a bit eaiser not having to ARGUE all the time about nothing and a black woman knows just what to say to drive her man up a wall. The whole “Im a queen” attitude needs to go out the window along with us as a people holding on to all the horrors of the past (slavery ended over 150 years ago). It’s time to move on and date whoever you want and for whatever reasons you like. Holding on to things like this keeps us back as a people. We are free yet most of us squander all the opportunities given to us. We can’t use the “man” as an excuse forever. Show your strength by moving on.

By: IAM

IAM — Wed, 20 Jan 2010 00:48:01 +0000

AMERICA WAS BUILT ON LIES AND WHITE PEOPLE. EVERYTHING IS A CONSPIRACY. HISTORY IS JUST THAT. HIS-STORY.(HINT,HINT). PEOPLE NEED TO RESEARCH. WE DONT TAKE YOUR HISTORY U TOOK OURS. BECUZ U DIDNT WANT US TO KNOW THE TRUTH ABOUT OURSELVES. WHITE WOMEN COMPLAIN ABOUT BLK WOMEN STARING AT THEM CUZ THEY WIT A BLK MAN. BUT I RECEIVE THOSE SAME STARES FROM WHITE WOMEN WHEN I’M WIT A BLK MAN/HUSBAND. LIKE THEY NEED TO HAVE ALL BLK MEN. I THINK SOME, NOT ALL, JUS DO IT TO PISS PEOPLE OFF AND ATTENTION. THEY’VE ALWAYS BEEN ENVIOUS WITH US. KNOW ALL YOUR HISTORY. BLK MEN WANT WHITE WOMEN BECAUSE THE WHITE MAN DIDNT ALLOW IT THEN WITHOUT BEING BEATEN, IMPRISONED, OR KILLED AND THERE IS NOTHING THAT THEY CAN DO ABOUT IT NOW. THAT IS WHY WE CALL THEM TROPHIES BECAUSE THE BLACK MAN FEELS AS IF HE ACHIEVED SOMETHING. A WAY OF SAYING “I WON.” THE WHITE MAN HAS ALWAYS, AND WILL ALWAYS CARE LESS ABOUT US “NEGROES.” WHITE WOMEN DATE BLACK MEN BECAUSE OF FORBIDDENESS AS A RESULT OF THE PAST AND OUR BEAUTIFUL DNA. AND BLACK WOMEN, AT LEAST MOST, ARE NOT JEALOUS. YES SOME HAVE CHILDREN YOUNG. BUT SO DO WHITE WOMEN, HISPANICS, ETC. BUT MAJORITY OF BLK WOMEN ARE IN THAT POSITION BECAUSE WE CHOOSE TO LAY IN THE BED WE MADE REGARDLESS OF THE STRUGGLES BECAUSE OF FAITH INSTEAD OF KILLING OFF OUR SEEDS AS MANY CAUCASION WOMAN. (NOW DO YOUR RESEARCH)I RATHER STRUGGLE TEMPORARILY ON EARTH THAN TO BE A MURDERER AND POSSIBLY CONDEMN MYSELF. IT SHOWS OUR STRENGTH. YES SOMETIMES WE CAN BE LOUD AND HIGH STANDARDS BUT WHAT DO U EXPECT WHEN U HAVE NONE. NOTHIN. MAYBE U RUN INTO A LOT OF BLK MEN WHO ARE WILLING TO “WINE AND DINE” YOU. BUT THEY KNOW THATS THE ONLY WAY TO GET TO YA’LL CAUSE IF THEY WERE BROKE WOULD THEY HAVE A CHANCE?ALL WOMEN GO THROUGH TRIALS YES. BUT AS WE KNOW AS YOU’VE ALL POINTED OUT WE HAVE IT HARD. NOT JUST BECAUSE OF OURSELVES BUT BECAUSE OF SOCIETY. OF COURSE BLACK WOMEN ARE MAINLY THE ONES ACKNOWLEDGING IT BECAUSE WE’RE THE ONE’S BEING EXCLUDED. WHITE WOMEN COULD CARE LESS CAUSE THEY HATE US SECRETLY. BLK MEN (SOME) JUST WANT AN EASIER LIFE. NOT ALL WHITE WOMEN ARE PUSH OVERS ITS JUST THAT IF YOU ARE TO FIND A NON AGRESSIVE WOMAN WHITE IS THE WAY TO GO. BLACK WOMAN(MAJORITY) WERENT HANDED A SILVER SPOON AND HAVE LEAD A DIFFICULT LIFE FROM BIRTH. ITS FUNNY HOW THE VERY THINGS A WHITE WOMAN HATES ABOUT ME OR ANOTHER BLK WOMAN IS THE VERY THING THEY HAVE TO SPEND HUNDREDS OR THOUSANDS OF DOLLARS ON. THE BIG BUTTS YOU SECRETLY WANT, FULL LIPS, PROPORTIONATE THICKNESS(NOT SLOPPY). I SEE WHITE WOMEN WHO WARE WEAVE ALOT THEY JUST THINK NO ONE WILL NOTICE. TRY TO USE URBAN SLANG. EVEN BE WEARING HAIRSTYLES THAT BLK WOMEN WEAR, VARIETY OF SKIN COMPLEXION NATURALLY TANNED. I DONT BYE THAT “IT BRINGS OUT MY GREEN EYES’ CRAP. WEAR MASCARA THEN. HOW CAN WE NOT MISTAKE IT FOR ENVY OF US. ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS. HOW CAN THE VERY THING YOU SAY U HATE BE THE VERY THING YOU DESIRE. THE CLOSEST I’VE COME TO ALTERING MYSELF IS STRAIGHTENING MY HAIR. I’M NEVER JEALOUS, YES I HAVE A HUSBAND. ONE WHO’S EDUCATED, BEAUTIFUL, EMPLOYED AND TAKES CARE OF BOTH HIS CHILDREN. YES IM EDUCATED AND AM MARRIED TO THE FATHER OF MY CHILDREN. ONLY ARE US BLK WOMEN DISGUSTED WHEN YOU DISOWN YOUR OWN ROOTS. SO ASHAMED OF YOUR COLOR THAT YOU TRY TO WASH IT OUT OF YOUR DNA TRULY LEAVING NO LEGACY BEHIND. IM NEVER CALLED RACIST. I SPEAK THE TRUTH THROUGH OBSERVATION AND RESEARCH. IT IS AND IF IT SOUNDS RACIST THEN MAYBE SOCIETY SHOULD CHANGE. TRYING TO TURN BLACK AGAINST BLACK. SEPERATION DARKER AND LIGHTER. SHAME ON EVERY ONE. THE ONLY TRUE HISTORY IS THE BIBLE. READ BETWEEN THE LINES. EVERYTHING IS PREDICTED. GET YOUR MINDS RIGHT BEFORE THE TRUE JUDGEMENT DAY PEOPLE.

By: Roxy

Roxy — Thu, 14 Jan 2010 20:11:48 +0000

ya know dis is all getting real old. why cant people accept that you dont own nor claim nobody. people live their lives striving for what makes them happy, and for the ones that arent…well you got bigger problems to come..but anywhozz who cares if they are black purple green whit gay straight whatever. if that person makes you happy so be it. there are just as many successfull individuals compared to fuckups in the world. and that includes all races. when are people goin to look at the individual instead of the outward appearance. i am Italian with a wonderful beautiful Italian/Black daughter that i raise on my own, does she see a difference in me n her……I think not..the only thing recognized in her eyes is the love she knows that will never go away…so to everyone in disagreement with what i had to say…..QUIT HATIN..LEARN TO LIVE YA OWN LIFE BECAUSE NO ONE ELSE IS ALL TO WORRIED ABOUT LIVIN YOURS..WE HAPPY WITH WHAT YOU GOT..NOW ITS YOUR TURN.

By: Mim

Mim — Wed, 13 Jan 2010 22:31:41 +0000

I am a white female and have dated a nigerian and an african american male. And it had nothing to do with their race, quite simply it was just chemistry and enjoying each others company. We don’t get to choose who we fall in love with, it just happens and whether the person be white/black/yellow native american indian a long as there is love at the end of the day. That’s all that should really matter.

By: satisfied whte woman

satisfied whte woman — Thu, 07 Jan 2010 00:35:04 +0000

they dont have the self worth to find a real man! Every race has good and bad men blackmen are not just thugs and badman and not all white men are good by anymeans either. and for all those people who keep on about know ur history, it wasnt just white people who kept slaves and what about your african ancestors who sold african people to the british and the french and the spanish hello reality check and hitler didnt want to get rid of the black nose the holocost wasnt about black people it was about jewish people. like i said im so pleased i dont live in america with these dated and inacurate narrow minded views!

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Thu, 07 Jan 2010 00:29:10 +0000

i am so pleased i dont live in america, i am a strong white woman married for 5 years to a jamaican black man luckily neither of us share ur warped racist views. in england if a white woman is with a black man we dont think we are better then black women, same as my black female friends married to white men.
why is it women in america cant pull togther in every womans struggle to have equel rights to men. sadly a lot of females (of any colour) dont want a real relationship they go with men who treat them bad because

By: Keeping It Real

Keeping It Real — Sat, 02 Jan 2010 16:59:03 +0000

I have seen and read the 2 articles time and time again. the disgusted white girl and the successful black man and I am in total agreement with the successful black man. I am a black woman and I am not jealous nor angry at any black man who dates a white woman. When I see an interracial couple, I make it a point to go out of my way to speak to her first to let her know that I am a very secure black woman to say the least and I have no problem with the situation. This will also come as a totally shock to you all and I wonder if any of you ever experienced this. I am a brown complexion black woman and my husband is a very dark successful black man, and my husband gets dirty looks from black men who are with white women. I often wondered why and I have come to the conclusion that the black man with the white women is mad because my husband found a beautiful strong black woman and he didn’t. Trust me disgusted white girl, you were not and will never be the first choice. He got with you just because he could not find one of us. And quiet as it is kepted white men prefer black woman over white woman, that are just too afraid of the black man and that is why they don’t pursue us as much, just as you white woman are afraid of black woman..I have white woman as some of my closest friends and my reasoning for knowing that the successful black man is speaking the truth because of my white woman friends, who don’t date black men and are married to white men, say to me all the time, Black woman are so beautiful and strong, and that we don’t age, our faces don’t crack, we can be 50 years old and look 30 years old. White woman on the other hand can be 30 years old and look 50 years old. White woman want so bad to have any and everything a black woman has, from our inner strength to our outer beauty. I don’t care how many black man you may sleep with and bring in the world biracial children, disgusted white girl, you will never be black, no matter how hard you try. One of the main things that bothered me the most about the disgusted white girl commnents is that she has heard all the negativity from her fiance about black woman – which I’m sure she truly enjoyed hearing – So that she could feel good about herself. Because truthfully that is probably the happiest moments in her life is when she hears some negative remarks about a black woman. In your closing remark, you stated If am wrong, black men let me know – Not once did you ever want to hear from a black woman – Why is that? Scared Perhaps?

By: 1/2 and 1/2

1/2 and 1/2 — Fri, 18 Dec 2009 23:40:59 +0000

i am a half AA and half latino, idated a hatian-black girl who like many of my other relationships, was always nagin me about what she wanted. Diamonds, 6000 sqaure foot home, BMW, nothin but the best as she said. finally i ended it. I am getting tired of controlling black women who want “the best” any body with me

By: mw

mw — Wed, 16 Dec 2009 02:40:10 +0000

I have just read all 99 posts on here….I can’t believe that anyone that has ever experienced any racism would say such things about black or white…those of you that have posted such negative comments you are no different than the ones you are damming.
Women of all color have so many beautiful attributes…and the men as well. Women need to stand strong together instead of bashing one another for who they choose to be with…my skin is just as beautiful as yours, just as soft…and I am just as strong as the next strong WOMAN. We need to show respect, and teach our kids the same…that is only one of many things that need to change and put an end to all of this. I am “white” and married to a “black” man…we experience ignorance every day from both of our races and were both ashamed of them. We have both dated/married within our race, but chose to start our life together based on our love for one another, not the color of our skin. We have watched our families open their hearts to our interracial relationship and have seen so many changes. I have had the opportunity to love and share a part of my life with some incredibly amazing “black” women…they are like no other and I have nothing but respect and compassion for trials they have experienced! And my husband has had the chance to see that not all “white” people are alike…
I am trying hard not to ask…….but, how have some of you managed to convince yourself that you can determine if someone is ‘easy’ based on the color of skin? Or which ethnic group is a better lover? Another question: why do some black people assume that white people don’t know the history of blacks? Why do you believe that white women take crap off a black man? Or that it is the same as slavery?
I really hope you all do some serious soul searching.